On this day … 20 November 1852

The Preston Guardian carried its report of the Duke of Wellington’s state funeral three days earlier. Among those who were mourning his death was the Winckley heiress, Frances, Lady Shelley. Lady Shelley, the daughter of Thomas Winckley, who was born and raised in Preston before her marriage to Sir John Shelley, had been a close friend and confidante of the duke from 1814, shortly before the Battle of Waterloo, until his death.

She recorded many of their conversations in her diaries and included many of their letters. Those diaries recount how after the battle, she and her husband travelled to Paris where they were welcomed by the duke:

‘We reached Paris at eleven in the morning, and … Shelley, having changed his travelling clothes, went off to call upon the Duke of Wellington, who, in about half an hour, returned with him to see me. In order to understand the delight which the Duke’s courteous, and prompt visit caused me, it must be remembered that the hero of Waterloo was regarded by his countrymen with feelings of the deepest gratitude …

‘… Wellington entered the room, looking as simple and unobtrusive as usual. I must admit that my enthusiasm for this great soldier was so great that I could not utter one word; and it was with the greatest difficulty that I restrained my tears! It was fortunate that I did so, for he would certainly not have understood the cause of such weakness. High-wrought sentiment was entirely foreign to the Duke’s nature.

‘He was dressed in a dark blue military great-coat, plain hat, and boots. His eye has, I think, even more than its usual fire; he looks remarkably well, and is fatter than he was last year. The painful feeling of awe which I at first felt in the Duke of Wellington’s presence was soon dispelled by the kindness of his manner, and the openness with which he conversed on the only subject about which I could think, or speak, namely, himself and Waterloo!’

An indication of how closely attached Wellington was to Lady Shelley is revealed by her recollection that ‘The Duke has given us his boxes at all the theatres in Paris. He has promised to join us at the opera on Sunday.’

Frances Lady Shelley
The portrait of Lady Shelley and the Malmaison image below are from volume one of her memoirs,

Lady Frances and Wellington became lifelong friends. At the time, she was still a young woman and acknowledged to be very beautiful. Wellington is reported to have been happier in the company of women, especially with young and beautiful ones such as Lady Shelley, with whom he could be playfully flirtatious. This is brought out in the following extract from her diary:

‘We then went with him to Prince Talleyrand’s. As we entered the room Madame St. Edmond Perigord ran up to the Duke, and kissed him on both cheeks. She showed the most naive joy, and called him her saviour. They had been much together at Vienna. She is a very pretty little woman, and expressed without the slightest hesitation, and with a natural impulse, the adoration which I also feel for Wellington. As we went home in the carriage we laughed at her embrace ; and the Duke told us that on the night before he left Vienna, all the women at a party embraced him, and prophesied that he would conquer Paris, when they would redeem the pledge.’

The next day:

‘… we went in the Duke’s carriage to Versailles. We had a relay of horses. I never was more deeply touched than when I stood upon that balcony upon which the Queen and all the Royal Family appeared on the night before they were seized. From there one sees the road by which the mob arrived on that tremendous day. I shall not easily forget the impression of that moment.’

Lady Shelley and Wellington at the Chateau of Malmaison

The Shelleys then visited Malmaison, the chateau which had been the residence of Napoleon’s wife, Josephine, and where Napoleon himself was living on the eve of Waterloo:

‘We spent a pleasant day at Malmaison, and had a long conversation with the concierge, who told us a great deal about Bonaparte. We spent the night at the chateau; and I slept in the bed which Bonaparte occupied the night before he went away for ever. I saw the marks he had cut into the chairs and tables. The concierge professed a deep attachment to him, and affection for the Empress Josephine …

‘… The concierge’s wife is an Englishwoman. She told me that Josephine was very extravagant in her dress, and also in her mode of living. Sometimes Bonaparte stormed at her because she asked him for money. “But,” said my informant, “that which he refused her to-day, she was sure to receive on the morrow”.’


Sources:
The two volumes of Lady Shelley’s diaries:
https://archive.org/details/diaryfranceslady01shel/page/n9/mode/2up
https://archive.org/details/diaryoffrancesla0002shel


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